i mean i tried talking to him on facebook and completely ignores me, and i just say hi. So i gave up on doing that. Then I saw him talking to his friends in school and i went up and said hi to him, but all he did was wave at me, said hi, then went on talking to his friends. I don’t want to confront him, but i know ignoring it doesn’t help. What do i do??
What do u do if your guy friend ignores you?
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Jafrin
March 27, 2010 at 4:03 am
Ask him whats wrong and if he doesn’t bother to ask then forget about it! He wont say anything then just give up cause i had problems like that and i just forget if they don’t even answer me.
Wilma F
March 27, 2010 at 4:39 am
doesn’t sound like much of a friend. why do you call him your friend? what about your relationship w/ him makes you think that he’s your friend?
he behaves more like a polite acquaintance you don’t know well or who doesn’t really care to know you well.
if this person were my friend then I’d ask him what was going on and I’d ask him why he was acting like he didn’t want to know me.
Cindy C
March 27, 2010 at 4:48 am
It sounds like he doesn’t really want to be friends with you for some reason. A friend will not ignore you when you come around, they’re excited and happy to see you. I think this is something you might need to forget about, but if you feel you can’t go on without understanding why, I would try to get him when he is not around his friends and tell him, “I noticed you’ve been avoiding me these past couple days, is everything ok? Did I offend you in anyway?” Give him a chance to talk and see what he says. If he says, everything is fine, let him know you feel like things have changed in your friendship and tell him the specific times he has ignored you. You might actually be misunderstanding things, maybe he really isn’t thinking about the friendship as seriously as you are, or maybe he didn’t realize how stand offish he’s been. Communicating is the key to any conflict/confusion.